Monday, September 20, 2010
Wouldn't it be nice?
Sometimes i ask myself...will i ever fall in love? Or am i destined to be a hopeless romantic lost in a world fueled by raging hormones and sex drives. I find myself in this predicament often where I find a nice girl who is attractive and smart but really is only looking for one thing. Ironic isn't it? My gender is constantly being stereotyped as animals who rely on their reproductive instinct to live their lives. And yet all of the encounters i have had it has been the exact opposite (note to self: have a long talk with whoever wrote high school biology books). Or i meet a girl who is attractive but is lacking a specific...depth she doesn't make decisions based off of her own convictions but tends to be easily influenced by everyone around her. Or the the last and most often predicament I find her that diamond in the rough who is beautiful, smart, elegant and loving BUT...she always has a boyfriend. As Smash mouth once said "whats the use in trying? all you get is pain, when i wanted sunshine I got rain". Maybe i am just picky but i have always been taught to maintain my standards no matter what and lets be honest..when has slumming ever lead to a good relationship I mean have you ever seen an episode of Jerry Springer? I don't wanna sound like i am complaining although i fear it is already too late for that but Wouldn't it be nice if i could wake up in the morning and have her by my side? That "special" someone that everyone says i am destined for? Everyone else i know has found somebody so..why cant i? Why cant i just catch a break and accidentally stumble across my future wife in a parking lot or realize the person who is supposed to be with me has been my best friend for years? Wouldn't it be nice?
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Patience and trust that God will provide when you're truly ready to find her. That's what you need.
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